Divorce Therapy in Texas
You can have confidence in your decision!
You don’t have to stay stuck in limbo. By the end of discernment counseling, you’ll feel more secure in your decision—whether it’s to work on the relationship or part ways. You’ll have clarity on what you truly want for yourself and your relationship.
Are You at a Crossroads in Your Marriage?
You’ve fought long and hard to make your marriage work. You’ve tried everything—communication, compromise, maybe even other forms of therapy—but nothing seems to change. The same patterns keep pulling you back into unhealthy cycles, and now, it feels like the only way out might be divorce.
It’s heartbreaking because deep down, neither of you want to end things. You’re just not sure what else to do. You’ve been contemplating divorce for some time, and the thought of it feels both like a relief and a loss. What you need now is clarity—an understanding of whether there’s still hope for your relationship or if separation is truly the best decision.
Does this sound Familiar?
Feeling Exhausted After Trying Everything: You’ve done your best to make things work, but it feels like nothing helps anymore. Every conversation, every effort to reconnect, ends in frustration or distance.
Trapped in Unhealthy Patterns: No matter what you try, you can’t seem to break free of the negative cycles. It feels like you’re constantly fighting or shutting down, and both of you are losing hope.
Divorce Feels Like the Only Option, But You’re Not Ready: It’s a painful realization. You don’t want to divorce, but it seems like the only way to stop the pain. You just can’t see a way forward together.
Lost in Uncertainty: You’ve been stuck in limbo, unsure whether you should keep trying or let go. The weight of that indecision feels heavy, and you just want confidence in whatever comes next.
What is Divorce Counseling?
Divorce counseling, often referred to as discernment counseling, is really about helping you find clarity in your relationship.
Discernment counseling is a short-term process designed for couples who are feeling stuck in their marriage and are considering divorce but aren’t quite ready to take that step. It’s a space where we can explore whether the challenges you’re facing might be resolved or if it's time to make a more permanent decision. Unlike traditional marriage counseling, which often assumes both partners are committed to working things out, discernment counseling helps you assess whether working on the marriage is a viable option or if moving towards divorce is the best choice for you.
This process is for those who genuinely want to take one last look at their relationship, especially if one partner feels ready to end things. If you find yourself wanting to give your marriage another chance, even when your spouse is leaning towards divorce, this might be the support you need.
How Does It Work?
Creating a Safe Space: In our sessions, I strive to create an environment where both partners feel heard and understood, no matter how different your perspectives may be.
Joint and Individual Weekly Sessions:
We’ll sit together to discuss your feelings, fears, and hopes.
I’ll also meet with each of you individually to explore your personal experiences in depth.
Focus on Understanding: This process isn’t about taking sides; it’s about uncovering your unique contributions to the relationship dynamic.
Session Structure:
We typically meet for a maximum of five sessions.
The first session lasts around two hours, allowing us to really dive into your concerns.
Subsequent sessions are about 1.5 to 2 hours long.
Goals: My aim is to help you find clarity and confidence in your decision-making—whether that’s working towards healing your marriage or preparing for a constructive divorce.
Making the Right Decision for Both of You:
This isn’t about rushing to conclusions or forcing a path. Discernment counseling helps you both get clear on whether you can rebuild your relationship or if it’s time to move on with respect and understanding.
Breaking the Cycle of Hurt:
Even though you’re stuck in unhealthy patterns, it doesn’t mean your relationship has to end. Through this process, you’ll get a clearer view of whether those patterns can be changed and if both of you are willing to work through it.
Clarity Without Pressure:
Whether you decide to continue together or apart, my goal is to help you find clarity and confidence. You’ll have the space to reflect deeply on what each path means for you, without pressure to choose one direction or another.
Frequently Asked Questions:
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Discernment counseling typically involves a maximum of five sessions. The first session lasts about 2 hours, allowing us to thoroughly explore your relationship dynamics, while follow-up sessions are approximately 1.5 hours each. We usually meet on a weekly basis to ensure you have consistent support throughout the process.
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Discernment counseling may not be suitable if:
One partner has already made a firm decision to divorce and seeks counseling primarily to convince the other.
There are concerns about domestic violence or safety issues.
A court has issued an Order of Protection.
One partner is coercing the other to participate in counseling against their will.
In these situations, alternative support options may be more appropriate to ensure the safety and well-being of both partners.
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Couples Counseling: The goal is to foster a stronger connection and resolve ongoing issues within the relationship.
Discernment Counseling: The goal is to help couples gain clarity and confidence in their decision-making, whether that involves working to restore the marriage or preparing for a constructive divorce.
Cost and Frequency of Discernment Counseling Sessions
Embarking on the journey of discernment counseling involves a commitment to understanding your relationship better. Here’s what you can expect regarding costs and session frequency:
Initial Session: Our first session lasts 2 hours and is priced at $396. This comprehensive meeting allows us to dive deep into your concerns and relationship dynamics.
Follow-Up Sessions: Subsequent sessions are 1.5 hours long, priced at $297 each.
Session Structure: We typically conduct a maximum of five sessions on a weekly basis. This structure ensures you have the time and support needed to find clarity in your decision-making process.
Investing in discernment counseling can provide the clarity and insight you need as you navigate this critical time in your relationship.
Let’s find the clarity you need to move forward.
If you’re ready to take the next step toward understanding your relationship’s future, schedule a free consultation to discuss how discernment counseling can help.